That first “stupid” comes out of your angel’s mouth.
“Gasp! Where did they hear that?” We look around like we are s…
My dad had creative ways to alter big family squabbles and wrangles.
He used to say, “DDDDDDDDDD!”
It always got our attention and he meant business.
With a cheesy grin and brows raised, he would glare out the side of his glasses staring us down and then complete the moment by saying…
“Children….Say lovin’ words.” in a sing-song fashion.
He would then return back to what he was doing while his six children knew exactly what that meant.
That was it.
When your baby is small is when you determine your word weather. I will tell you that it is extremely difficult to change your word weather later! Some of our taboo words in my husband’s and my home were stupid, dumb, shut-up, fat, butt, kill,… and no swears ever. Discover substitutes and model them for your children.
Some families can stir up a pretty harsh word storm meant to be hurtful and demeaning. It creates a weather that is difficult to get rid of and feels scary and sad. Words do hurt. Words are lethal.
Begin young to determine your family language.
Do something strange to get your kid’s attention away from word hurting, in a fun way.
To this day, I can hear my father make that noise and say those words.
It makes me smile.
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